Divorce and Separation

Clear Legal Guidance When Your Relationship Comes to an End

The end of a marriage or relationship can be emotionally difficult and can raise important questions about your home, finances, children and future.

At MYM Solicitors, we provide clear and practical Family Law advice to help you understand your legal options and make informed decisions during divorce or separation. Whether you are considering divorce, have already separated, or need help resolving financial or child-related matters, our team can support you throughout the process.

What Is Divorce and Separation?

Divorce is the legal process of ending a marriage. In England and Wales, you can generally apply for a divorce if you have been married for more than one year, your relationship has permanently broken down and your marriage is legally recognised in the UK. The current divorce process does not require you to prove that your spouse was at fault.

Separation means living apart or ending your relationship without necessarily ending your marriage. You do not have to divorce immediately if you are not ready to end the marriage. Depending on your circumstances, a legal separation may allow you to formalise certain financial arrangements while remaining married.

Divorce and separation can involve several separate legal issues, including:

  • Divorce proceedings
  • Financial settlements
  • The family home and other property
  • Savings and investments
  • Pensions
  • Spousal maintenance
  • Child arrangements
  • Child maintenance
  • Legal separation
  • Consent orders
  • Domestic abuse and protective orders where relevant

Obtaining a divorce does not automatically resolve financial or child-related matters. These issues may need to be dealt with separately.

How MYM Solicitors Will Help

At MYM Solicitors, we understand that every divorce and separation is different. Our Family Law team can provide tailored legal advice based on your circumstances and help you understand the options available to you.

Advising You Before Divorce

If you are considering ending your marriage, we can explain the divorce process and help you understand the legal and practical issues you may need to consider before making an application.

Assisting With Divorce Applications

We can assist with the preparation and progression of your divorce application and help you understand the different stages of the process.

Where appropriate, we can also advise you about making a sole or joint application.

Explaining the Divorce Process

We can guide you through the key stages, including the application, conditional order and final order, and explain what each stage means for you. Under the current process, there is a minimum 20-week period between the divorce application being issued and the application for a conditional order. The final order then legally ends the marriage.

Financial Settlements

Divorce can have significant financial consequences. We can advise you about financial matters including:

  • The family home
  • Other property
  • Savings and investments
  • Pensions
  • Business interests
  • Debts
  • Income and financial needs
  • Spousal maintenance
  • Clean break arrangements

If an agreement is reached, we can assist with a consent order to help make the financial arrangements legally binding.

Child Arrangements

If you have children, we can help you address arrangements concerning where they live and when they spend time with each parent. Where parents cannot agree, we can advise on mediation and, where appropriate, applications to the Family Court.

Mediation and Negotiation

Not every divorce or separation needs to result in contested court proceedings. Where appropriate, we can help you explore negotiation, mediation and other forms of dispute resolution to try to resolve matters constructively. In many family cases, mediation or another form of dispute resolution should be considered before making a court application, although exemptions can apply, including in certain domestic abuse or urgent situations.

Consent Orders

If you and your former spouse agree on your financial arrangements, we can assist with preparing a consent order for court approval.  A private agreement is not automatically legally binding. A court-approved consent order can formalise the financial arrangements and, where appropriate, provide for a clean break.

Financial Court Proceedings

If an agreement cannot be reached, we can advise and represent you in financial remedy proceedings where appropriate. This can involve financial disclosure, hearings, Financial Dispute Resolution and, if necessary, a final hearing.

Support With Child-Related Court Proceedings

Where parents cannot agree about their children, we can advise you about applications for Child Arrangements Orders and other appropriate orders. The court’s focus is the welfare of the child, and arrangements will depend on the individual circumstances of the family.

Separation Without Divorce

If you do not want to end your marriage, we can explain the legal options available for separation and help you understand how financial and family matters may be dealt with while you remain married.

Divorce Where There Are Complex Circumstances

We can also provide advice where your circumstances involve issues such as significant assets, pensions, businesses, international property, children, domestic abuse or disagreements about finances.

Frequently Asked Questions

No. The current divorce process in England and Wales is based on the marriage having irretrievably broken down and does not require you to prove adultery, unreasonable behaviour or another specific ground of fault.

There is a minimum 20-week period from the divorce application being issued before you can apply for the conditional order.

After the conditional order, you must normally wait at least 6 weeks and 1 day before applying for the final order. The overall time can be longer depending on the circumstances of the case and whether other matters, such as finances or children, need to be resolved.

Yes. A spouse does not generally have to agree to the divorce for the process to continue. Depending on the circumstances, you may make a sole application rather than a joint application.
No. Divorce and financial matters are separate issues. You and your former spouse need to agree how your finances will be dealt with or, if agreement cannot be reached, seek an appropriate financial order from the court.
It is generally important to formalise an agreed financial settlement properly. A private agreement is not automatically legally binding. A consent order approved by the court can make the agreed financial arrangements legally binding and may provide for a clean break where appropriate.
There is no single automatic outcome. Depending on the circumstances, options may include selling the property and dividing the proceeds, transferring ownership, postponing a sale or making another appropriate arrangement. The right approach will depend on factors including the parties’ financial resources, housing needs, mortgage position and the needs of any children.
Pensions can form an important part of financial arrangements following divorce. Depending on the circumstances, pensions may be dealt with through options such as pension sharing or other financial arrangements. Professional advice is particularly important where significant or complex pension assets are involved.
Parents can usually agree arrangements themselves concerning where their children live and when they spend time with each parent. If parents cannot agree, mediation or other dispute resolution may be appropriate, or a court application may be necessary. Any court decision concerning children will focus on their welfare.
Not necessarily. The divorce process itself does not normally require you to attend a court hearing. Financial and child-related matters may also be resolved without a contested hearing if an agreement can be reached. Where financial matters cannot be agreed, however, court proceedings may be necessary.
Legal separation allows a married couple to live separately and formalise certain legal and financial arrangements without ending their marriage. It may be an option for people who do not wish to divorce immediately or do not want to end their marriage. The appropriate approach depends on your circumstances.
It is possible to deal with financial matters after the divorce, but delaying financial arrangements can have important consequences. For example, GOV.UK guidance highlights that there can be financial consequences, particularly concerning pensions, if financial matters are dealt with only after the final divorce order. Obtaining legal advice before finalising your divorce can therefore be important.
Yes. Where domestic abuse is involved, we can advise you about your Family Law options, including protective orders, child arrangements and financial matters. Domestic abuse can also affect whether certain mediation requirements apply and may be relevant to the way family proceedings are handled.

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Divorce or Separation

Speak to MYM Solicitors About Divorce or Separation

Divorce and separation can affect your family, finances, home and future. Getting appropriate legal advice early can help you understand your position and make informed decisions.

Contact MYM Solicitors today for professional Family Law advice tailored to your circumstances.

Why Choose MYM Solicitors?

  • Tailored advice based on your individual circumstances
  • Clear guidance throughout the divorce process
  • Support with financial settlements
  • Advice on property, pensions and other assets
  • Assistance with child arrangements
  • Support with negotiation and mediation
  • Assistance with consent orders
  • Representation in Family Court proceedings where appropriate
  • Confidential and professional Family Law support

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